These are the notes I took while watching this video. Perhaps they will be of some help.
There is awesome power in
forgiveness. It is God's solution for bitterness, resentment, and
hostility. You and I need the freedom found only through sincerely
and completely forgiving others.
Forgiveness is giving up
resentment against someone and our right to get even no matter what
has been done to us. It is the surrendering of my right to hurt you
back.
Freedom from the enslavement
of anger and all the feelings that go with it: hostility, bitterness
and resentment.
You can't just say you
forgive, you have to experience it. If you try to justify someone's
wrong to you, you are not forgiving them.
Matthew 6:12-15
Living in the willful sin is
a condition in which God will not answer our prayer. If he did, he
would be condoning sin. which is out of his character. Perhaps one
reason people are not blessed is because of unforgiveness.
Unforgiveness is detrimental
to our souls. It interferes with your fellowship with God. Not your
relationship with him because once saved you are saved.
Matthew 18:21 Jesus
instructs us to forgive 70 times 7. If you don't forgive others, the
father won't forgive you.
There is no justifiable
reason for not forgiving others.
Ephesians 4:30-32 1 John
1:9
Do not grieve the Holy
Spirit. Be kind to one another, forgive.
Don't let anger become deep
down hostility inside you. Forgiveness is the most unselfish act we
can perform. God will enable us to forgive.
Unforgiveness is a chain
around your heart.
To deal
with anger:
- acknowledge you have experienced God's forgiveness
- confess your anger and hostility
- lay down your anger and bitterness
- ask God to forgive you
By an act of my will, I
choose by the power of the Holy Spirit, to lay down this anger.
When you have held an
attitude of resentment towards someone who hurt you, ask for their
forgiveness by saying, "My attitude towards you has not been
right."
If you have forgiven you
will thank God for allowing this to happen Ask God to teach you
about His grace. Remind yourself, God's grace has surrounded me all
these years.
When you have forgiveness:
- you will not feel the same way the next time you see them
- your harsh feelings are replaced with compassion
- you can accept them the way they are
- you will consider why they did that