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Thursday, March 1, 2018

Turning Conversations to Christ

I recently read an article by Rebecca Manley Pippert about how to turn conversations to Christ. Her answer was amazingly simple and powerful. It's simply to ask good questions!

In a recent Bible Study, we learned about how many questions Jesus asks in the New Testament. I've forgotten the exact number, but the main idea was that Jesus asked questions and told stories. Just Google "Jesus teaching with questions" and you will come up with some wonderful articles. In one of those articles  Eric von Atzigen compiled a list of 135 Jesus questions.

People often resort to preaching sermons when trying to witness to others. Of course, Jesus was the master communicator and our model for living. So why not ask questions like the Master Teacher? 

Questions are effective because they can be used in a non-threatening way, they often evoke a response which is a brilliant way to communicate and let people know that we are interested in them and want to get to know them.

The Concentric Circle Model is good tool to use when you wish to turn a conversation to Christ. Begin with general interest questions about their family, job or where they're from. Then move to specific interest questions about their area of interest. Next ask issue questions that cause them to reflect on what they believe. Then you can ask a spiritual question.

So instead of busting out with a sermon, spend some time getting to know a person, showing genuine interest establishes a relationship with them. Then you can discuss spiritual matters. I love the question approach and as a teacher who was taught to ask questions while teaching, I can't believe I didn't think of this before!