Just last year on
his blog, Billy Graham wrote, "Thanksgiving—the giving of
thanks—to God for all His blessings should be one of the most
distinctive marks of the believer in Jesus Christ. We must not allow
a spirit of ingratitude to harden our heart and chill our
relationship with God and with others. Nothing turns us into bitter,
selfish, dissatisfied people more quickly than an ungrateful heart.
And nothing will do more to restore contentment and the joy of our
salvation than a true spirit of thankfulness."
Keeping a Gratitude Journal is a
spiritual discipline that helps us focus on what we have, not what we
think we need. In her blog post, Why is Gratitude so Powerful,
Jean Wise wrote, "Being thankful helps us step out of the way,
thanking God for all things, not relying on our own self centered
strength."
A few of the benefits of gratitude
found in research:
- Studies have found that gratitude helps you recover more quickly from stress, adversity and trauma by helping you interpret negative events. It has been found to give you a perspective to help guard against post-traumatic stress and lasting anxiety.
- People who are grateful tend to be more helpful and empathic, more spiritual and religious, more forgiving, and less materialistic than others who are less predisposed to gratefulness.
- Gratitude can improve relationships. Gratitude makes us nicer, more trusting, more social, and more appreciative. As a result, it helps us make more friends, deepen our existing relationships, and improve our marriage.
- People who practice gratitude consistently report benefits such as stronger immune systems and lower blood pressure; higher levels of positive emotions; more joy, optimism, and happiness; act with more generosity and compassion; and feel less lonely and isolated.
Let's commit to expressing our
gratitude to God by keeping a Gratitude Journal, or consider finding
a Gratitude Buddy, a partner who is interested in purposefully
writing about gratitude. Make a commitment to share one thing each
day that you are grateful for. Do it by email or text. It helps to
have someone else depending on you and expecting you to share a
grateful thought each day.
There are a monthful of prompts for a gratitude journal at this website.
How to Keep a Gratitude Journal.