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Monday, March 18, 2019

God is Not a Genie in a Bottle

People often think of God as a genie in a bottle ready to grant us all our wishes. They go to God in prayer with their shopping list of wants. Many people read the scriptures below and take the meaning literally, out of context.

Ask and it will be given to you; seek and you will find; knock and the door will be opened to you. Matthew 7:7

You can ask for anything in my name, and I will do it, so that the Son can bring glory to the Father. John 14:13

Matthew Henry, the great British theologian explained that the words in these passages of scripture above. It is assumed that we ask for good gifts, and that we ask as Christ has taught us, in His name and according to His spirit. Otherwise we may ask and not receive, because what we ask for is unsuitable, not quite right, or out of place, or out of order. Every one who asks does receive, that is, everyone who asks correctly, who prays in faith and in submission to the will of God. A parent will seek the welfare of the child, and give what he thinks will be most for its good. Whatever we ask in Christ's name, that would be for our good, God will give to us. To ask in Christ's name, is to make an emotional appeal for his goodness on our behalf.

I recently spoke to someone who has recently experienced a tragedy. I was telling him how I've been praying for their family, and the response was, "yeah well it's not doing much good." I ached to hear that and thought of how we are to be Ambassadors for Christ. We need to share the fact that we have troubles too, and they're not all going to go away when we pray. We must pray for God's will, not expect Him to answer the way we want them answered, when we want.

How do we respond when God doesn't answer our prayers? Does our faith waver if He doesn't give us what we've asked for in the way and time that we expected? Charles Stanley says that we need to understand what God is doing in our lives. Sometimes God doesn't immediately give the relief we are asking for because He's using that particular trial to produce something good in us. God wants us to come to Him with our requests, trusting that He hears us. If he doesn't answer them immediately, it's not because He doesn't care. His purposes are always accomplished according to His timing, not ours. He may answer in a different way or later than we expect. That's why we must wait and trust Him even when we see no evidence of an answer. Stanley says that “whenever God delays in responding to our petitions, He's teaching us to consistently trust and believe Him, not because we see the answer, but because He's promised to hear and answer our prayers. When doubts arise because God delays, it's due to our lack of trust in Him, not a lack of care or ability on the Lord's part.”

Human reasoning and faith are not always compatible. We may have all kinds of good reasons for asking for something, but God sees more of the situation than we do. God is Omnipotent, He knows so much more than we can even fathom. Charles Stanley explained it perfectly when he said, “If God delays in answering a prayer, He has divine reason that is good, legitimate, and helpful. His primary purpose is not to give us everything we desire but to shape us into the image of His Son, and He knows the perfect way to accomplish this.”

God is not a Genie who grants wishes, but we must still pray constantly while remembering to ask for God's will and time, and have faith. God loved us so much that He gave His only son for our sins. 

Prayer changes things.